The duality of being able to communicate anywhere and anytime....
"As far as I can tell, devices meant to save you time and help you communicate actually take away time and give you an excuse to not to communicate. People like e-mail because they don't have to answer it. I don't even own a computer".Enlightening owner of that quote....
This got me thinking: do we communicate more or less than we did just a mere decade ago? And what's happened to the depth and quality of our communications? How many many meaningful conversations do you have daily?
I believe volumewise, we're in the stratosphere in terms of communications and it's only a matter of time before someone figures out the ultimate anti-gravity equation for communications and we can warp beyond our puny limit of daily hundreds of e-mails, voicemails and junkmails. Call me a cynic 'cuz I live in the corporate world - sometimes it seems like half my day is either spent deleting e-mail or generating e-mail which will be deleted as soon as possible by someone else. This must be the Devil's version of the to-do list. How many times do you let e-mail sit there before answering, or not? How many calls do you allow to go to voice-mail?
At the same time - thanks to the Internet in particular, we make way more (often fleeting) connections than we used to or could ever think to. Are you interested in talking about a kite-swaying-cat-loving-vege-hating-post-feminist-neoconservative-environmentally challenged world? Well - there's likely more than one someone out there that you can connect with. And that's magic.
In short:
Volume - up
Connectivity/Range of Communication options - up
Standard Deviation of the Distance of the People We're connecting with - up
Quality of communications - don't know
People yearning for a shared connection - still there

1 Comments:
Nice post.
I was anti the whole cyber thing but made some stunning friends anyway. An American politician, a Roman businessman, a Dutch guy etc etc ... and they all broke the mode of how I imagined 'computer people' to be. Those friendships began in a chatroom called Travel back in 2000.
One friend ran the English dept. at the Istanbul school I ended up teaching in, another showed me Rome, others travelled through New Zealand with me.
I've always had nice real life friends but these cyberworld friends have changed the course of my life and so ... many many words later ... I like this whole communication thing that's changing the world.
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